Your instincts tell you that if your ex just realizes how much you love them and how much you care about them, they will come back.
You just need to make them believe that no one in the world will ever love them the way you do.
But in reality, it’s not as bad as we make it out to be.
They decided to leave you and they are prepared to go through your begging and pleading. And even if your ex came back because of this, do you really want your ex to be with you just because of pity? Your instincts will tell you that if you just agree to everything your ex wants, they will come back. You agree to the most ridiculous demands your ex has. Because having your ex in your life is the only thing that matters. Agreeing to everything your ex says is not going to bring them back.
Whatever the reason for breakup was, it’s not going to change with your begging. Your instincts will tell you that your needs, your values, your desires, your goals don’t matter. In fact, it’s only going to make your ex respect you less.
Having a plan gives you a sense of direction and removes all the confusion. I am glad you asked because the first part of this guide is precisely about these mistakes.
A plan will give you something to look forward to when you are feeling down and unsure about yourself. I call this part “The Instincts” because all these mistakes are a direct result of people following their instincts. Since then, I have messaged him everyday constantly and he barely replies.